LGBT Divorce

San Francisco LGBT Divorce Lawyers

Navigating Divorce With Compassionate Advocates in The Bay

Divorce is never an easy process, but it can be made even more stressful when you are dealing with the added challenge of being a member of the LGBT community. If you are a lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender person who is getting a divorce, you may have additional questions and concerns about how the process works.

At Nachlis | Cohade | Lopez-Whitaker, LLP, our San Francisco LGBT divorce lawyers are here to help. We understand the unique issues that LGBT members face and are committed to helping you resolve your case in a way that is as painless as possible.


Call Nachlis | Cohade | Lopez-Whitaker, LLP today at (415) 855-9344 or contact us online to schedule a meeting with our LGBT divorce attorney in San Francisco!


Understanding LGBT Divorce in California

In California, LGBT divorce laws are the same as divorce laws for opposite-sex couples. The state recognizes same-sex marriage and registered domestic partnerships, and the same laws apply to the dissolution of these relationships.

Here are some key things to know about LGBT divorce in California:

  • Residency Requirements: To file for divorce in California, at least one spouse/partner must have lived in the state for at least six months before filing.
  • Grounds for Divorce: California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you do not need to prove fault or wrongdoing to obtain a divorce. The grounds for divorce are irreconcilable differences.
  • Property Division: California is a community property state, meaning that all property acquired during the marriage/partnership is generally considered community property and is divided equally in a divorce. However, there may be exceptions to this rule depending on the specific circumstances of your case.
  • Child Custody: California courts make custody decisions based on the child's best interests. Both parents are generally entitled to legal and physical custody unless there are factors that would make joint custody unsuitable.
  • Spousal/Partner Support: Spousal/partner support (also known as alimony) may be awarded to one spouse/partner based on factors such as the length of the marriage/partnership, the earning capacity of each spouse/partner, and the standard of living during the marriage/partnership.

It is important to note that divorce laws can be complex, and the specific details of your case can impact how the laws apply to you. It may be helpful to consult with an attorney who has experience in LGBT divorce cases to ensure that your rights are protected.

Commonly Asked Questions

What documents do I need to file for a same-sex divorce in San Francisco?

To file for a same-sex divorce in San Francisco, you typically need to provide a petition for dissolution, your marriage certificate, financial disclosures, and any agreements related to child custody or property division.

How long does the divorce process take for same-sex couples in California?

The divorce process duration can vary, but in California, it generally takes a minimum of six months from the date of filing to finalize the divorce, assuming there are no disputes.

Can I contest a divorce if I do not agree with my spouse's terms?

Yes, you can contest a divorce if you do not agree with your spouse's terms. This may involve negotiating through mediation or taking the case to court for a judge to decide.

Are there specific considerations for child custody in same-sex divorces?

Child custody decisions in same-sex divorces are based on the best interests of the child, similar to opposite-sex divorces. Factors include the child's relationship with each parent and the stability of each parent's home environment.

What should I know about spousal support in a same-sex divorce?

Spousal support, or alimony, in a same-sex divorce is determined based on factors such as the length of the marriage, each partner's financial situation, and the standard of living during the marriage.

Am I Eligible to File for LGBT Divorce in California?

Yes, if you are in a same-sex marriage or a registered domestic partnership in California, you are eligible to file for divorce in the state. California recognizes both same-sex marriage and registered domestic partnerships, which means that the same laws that apply to divorce for opposite-sex couples also apply to same-sex couples.

In California, the process for LGBT divorce is similar to that of a traditional divorce. You will need to file a petition for dissolution of marriage or domestic partnership, and you and your spouse/partner will need to agree on issues such as property division, child custody, and spousal/partner support. If you cannot agree, a court will make these decisions for you.

It is important to note that divorce laws can vary by state, and if you were married or entered into a domestic partnership in a state that does not recognize same-sex marriage or partnerships, you may need to consult with an attorney to determine your options for divorce.

Understanding the Unique Challenges of Same-Sex Divorce

Divorce can be a complex and emotional process, and same-sex couples often face unique challenges that require specialized legal expertise. At Nachlis | Cohade | Lopez-Whitaker, LLP, we understand the intricacies of same-sex divorce, including issues related to property division, child custody, and spousal support that may differ from traditional divorce cases.

Some common challenges faced by same-sex couples during divorce include:

  • Asset Division: Determining the fair distribution of shared assets can be complicated, especially when considering property acquired before the marriage or during periods of separation.
  • Child Custody and Support: Establishing parental rights and navigating custody arrangements can be particularly sensitive, especially if one partner is not a biological parent.
  • Legal Recognition: Depending on the timeline of your marriage, there may be varying degrees of legal recognition that could impact your divorce proceedings.
  • Emotional Factors: The emotional toll of divorce can be heightened in same-sex relationships due to societal pressures and family dynamics.

Our experienced attorneys are dedicated to providing compassionate and knowledgeable support tailored to your specific situation. We will work closely with you to ensure that your rights are protected and that you feel empowered throughout the process. Let us help you navigate this challenging time with confidence.

Why Choose Us as Your LGBT Divorce Attorneys in San Francisco?

At Nachlis | Cohade | Lopez-Whitaker, LLP, we pride ourselves on being more than just legal representatives; we are your dedicated allies in navigating the complexities of divorce. Our experienced legal team understands the unique emotional and financial challenges that can arise in LGBT divorce cases. 

Here’s why choosing us can make a significant difference in your journey:

  • Personalized Legal Strategy: We recognize that every divorce is unique. Our team works closely with you to develop a tailored legal plan that addresses your specific circumstances, ensuring your needs and rights are prioritized.
  • Expertise in LGBT Law: Our firm specializes in LGBT family law, giving us a comprehensive understanding of the legal nuances that affect same-sex couples in divorce. You can trust that we stay informed on evolving laws and regulations.
  • Holistic Support Services: Beyond legal counsel, we offer connections to supportive resources, such as counselors and financial advisors, to assist you through this challenging time, both emotionally and practically.
  • Proven Track Record: Our clients benefit from our history of successful outcomes in complex LGBT divorce cases. Your case will be in skilled hands, with a focus on achieving the best possible resolution.
  • Respectful and Compassionate Communication: We understand that divorce can be one of the most stressful life events. Our team prioritizes clear communication and empathy, ensuring you feel heard and supported throughout the entire process.

Choosing the right legal representation can significantly impact your divorce experience. Let us be your trusted partners as you embark on this new chapter of your life.

Contact Our San Francisco LGBT Divorce Lawyers Attorney Today

If you are an LGBT community member getting a divorce, we want to help. To find out more about our services, please contact us to schedule an initial consultation. We are based in San Francisco, but we serve clients throughout California.


Contact Nachlis | Cohade | Lopez-Whitaker, LLP online or call us at (415) 855-9344 today to schedule a meeting with our LGBT divorce lawyer in San Francisco!